practical applications on the table. So what kind of movies is it okay to watch? Mm-Hmm.
<affirmative>, do young children have to obey modesty rules? Is it okay to, I don't know, wear
certain types of attire? What type of swimwear is okay to wear? Is it okay to go on a hike on the
Sabbath day? How about a drive? How about a boat ride? How about water skiing? Like, at
what point? And I can see in your eyes, like, you know, d different things. You're like, no, that's
not, oh, come on. Yeah. Like, you know, so all of a, some people are like, oh, that's ridiculous.
Why would you even talk about that? And other people are like, are you serious? Like, that's a
core doctrine. Right. So depending on your views on fence laws, you'll have very different
reactions to these types of questions. Yeah.
Speaker 1 00:09:59 So, I mean, I think you've defined it as well. And, uh, is, have we
touched in as far as the, that fence laws can be good, right? Is that where we're heading next?
Or is there more of far as this definition we need to
Speaker 2 00:10:09 Consider? A lot? I, yeah. I think it is really important. We can't
overemphasize the goodness of fence laws. Mm-Hmm. <affirmative>. And, and maybe you
have some personal stories from your life. I remember as a missionary elder, Richard G. Scott
came and spoke to my mission and he said something to the effect of, while you're on your
mission, find a time of spiritual reflection when you can set a standard for yourself of what you
will do and will not do to express feelings. Hmm. Said, the spirit will guide you. So I thought that
was a great idea. I prayed and I set, it was offense law. I set for myself a standard that I was
gonna follow after my mission for living the law of chastity. And I really feel like that kept me safe
and in a spiritual sense. 'cause that whole of sin is real. Mm-Hmm. <affirmative>, I love that
Elder Scott invited me to set my own fence law. Right. He, he didn't tell me, you know, here's
what you should do Through the spirit, I was able to identify that for myself, and that made it for
me really meaningful. Yeah. How, how about for you, how, how, like, how have you, what would
you say are the benefits of fence laws? How have you seen these?
Speaker 1 00:11:07 Well, I just think it's, it's one of those things, like I always talk about, uh,
you know, systems over goals, right? And so it's easy for me to have a goal of like, I'm not
gonna do this sin that sin or I'm gonna be this type of person. But to me, I, I go back to, well,
what's my system of doing that? And that's where the fence rules come in, right? So this isn't
necessarily sin, but it can maybe lead there as far as like eating, like, especially I'm 37 years
old. If I eat after seven o'clock, it goes to my hips, John, I'll tell you that. Right? So I have this
defense law that I just don't eat after dinner, and I remind myself when I'm drawn to the pantry,
I'm thinking, well, it's eight 30. I don't do this right now. Right? Mm.
Speaker 1 00:11:43 And so again, is, there's nothing wrong or immoral about eating after
that time, but it's a, it's a fence law that I know that there's consequences if I cross that it may
not, maybe it won't happen. Maybe I'll just eat, you know, a rice, uh, patty and it'll be fine. Right.
<laugh>. But, but even spiritually, you know, and, and you know, the, just with these fence laws,
I think a lot of people, they, they just come to mind, especially from our teenage years, right?
The one as we were growing up that, uh, you, we don't watch rated at our movies, right? Well, is
that in the handbook? Like, oh, well I can point to a President Benson talk where he says that,
well, he's setting a, a fence law there that we've sort of absorbed that. Many people will say,