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5. Focus: 10 FAQ’s. The newest editions of each of the Day by Day books
have 10 FAQ’s in the back. You may want to highlight one or two or read
them all, having participants circle which of the FAQ’s speak to them the
most.
6. Focus: Talk about rhythms and Compline which is now in the back of each
Day by Day book. Encourage people to end their day with Jesus – even if is
just for a few moments. The rhythm of starting and ending each day with Jesus
is a powerful way to practice His presence all through the day.
7. Focus: Growing up and maturing into adults. The Daily Office, particularly
silence and stillness, marks a great shift in our relationship with God. We
move from only speaking to God to listening, to a two-way relationship.
Imagine being in a relationship with someone where they only talk to you but
never listen! A mature relationship with someone requires listening/being
with the person and not simply talking. Remember, a major analogy of our
relationship with God is marriage.
8. Focus: A visual picture of resting in the Father’s love. Put up on a Power
Point Rembrandt’s painting of The Prodigal Son. The Office is a time for us to
lean our head against the Father’s chest and let His hands and love rest upon
us.
9. Focus: The deepest yearning of our hearts. We all yearn for love, notice,
and acceptance from people. That is God-given and good. But we first are to
get that deep need met from God and not, inappropriately, borrow that love
from others. God alone can satisfy the deepest yearnings of our heart.
During the silence and stillness, we stop and let him love us so as not to
borrow from others.
10. Focus: Distinguish between exterior silence and interior silence. We can
experience interior silence when at the beauty salon, on the bus, driving a
car, at a baseball game, or at work. The practice of exterior silence helps us
mature into our ability to live in greater interior silence.
11. Focus: Abiding in Jesus is our goal (John 15). Our goal with the Offices is
not to stop but to practice His presence all through the day, to abide/remain
with Jesus, remembering Him all through our days. Most of us live
compartmentalized lives, thinking of God only in church, small groups, etc.
We are growing muscles to remain in Him, and pray always (Eph. 6:18).
12. Focus: Prayer is receiving the loving gaze of God on us (He is pictured as
Abba/ Father in Scripture and as a loving mother). e.g. Every day at his
lunch break, John would go and sit in an empty church for 15 minutes by